Footage Of Man Who Vanished Exposes One Concerning Detail

From the outside, Constantine Theoharis was the picture of success. He had the fancy job, the home, and the good looks. Beneath the surface, though, his life was on the brink of chaos and collapse. When Constantine's family didn't hear from him for a few days, it immediately raised some red flags. They contacted the police, and with some digging, they began to realize there was a lot more to his abrupt silence than anyone suspected.

Family Man

Constantine and his girlfriend Stacy Avera had been together for years, and with the encouragement of friends and family, the two lovebirds finally decided to make it official. The groom nervously stood up at the altar in front of rows of smiling faces to marry Stacy in south Florida. They were both eager to begin this new chapter in their lives.

Successful Real Estate Agent

His job as a commercial real estate agent meant they had a beautiful home, the sounds of the waves and sandy beaches just steps from their back door. Soon, Stacy and Constantine added a few kids to the mix. Managing the changes in their relationship wasn't easy.

Relationship Troubles

Adjusting to married life with kids was a challenge, but it worked, for a while at least. As each anniversary passed, maintaining the magic of their relationship grew more difficult. Constantine and Stacy were no longer on the same page.

Getting Worse

Nine years in, their differences were too much to work through. Constantine was struggling with substance abuse problems and it put an incredible strain on the marriage. Stacy had given it as many chances as she could before reaching her final limit.

Splitting Up

They decided the best solution was to separate. Too much between them had changed for a reconciliation. They signed the divorce papers three days before the marking of their 9th anniversary, citing their split was “in consequence of disputes and irreconcilable differences.”

Custody Matters

A judge awarded Stacy full custody of their kids. Constantine received visitation every other weekend and for the kids' summer vacation. Court dismissed, and Constantine went home to a large house, that for the first time in years, would be frequently empty.

On the Wagon

Despite his newfound bachelorhood, Constantine still had to maintain sobriety. Part of the custody agreement involved court-ordered random drug testing, four times per year, until 2010. If he fell off the wagon, his visitation with his children would be revoked. He stuck with it.

Constantine's Troubles

But in August of 2014 the seamless co-parenting routine cracked. Stacy grew frustrated with Constantine's priorities, spending huge amounts on keeping up appearances while neglecting what was the most important.

Child Support

That month marked Constantine’s first late child support payment. Month after month, his payments grew later, and eventually, his checks stopped arriving at all. Naturally, Stacy wasn’t going to put up with her ex-husband’s not holding up his end of their divorce agreement.

Backlash

Skipping out on child support payments had serious consequences. Constantine maintained a close bond with his family and expressed how deeply worried he was about not being able to catch up on the payments, and the looming consequences hanging over his head. 

AWOL

Fielding frantic calls from Constantine was a regular practice in the family and then suddenly all communication stopped. So, with his cousin's words ringing in his ears, Chris Damian called the police to report Constantine missing on March 23rd, 2018.

Totally Empty

Police made a welfare check at Constantine’s house. When they opened the door, they expected to see him turn around a corner, demanding an explanation for the cops roaming his house. Instead, everything looked perfectly normal, save for one glaring detail.

Key Items

Constantine wasn't there, but his phone, wallet, and keys were out in plain view. If he’d premeditated his flight, he’d have at least packed a bag. None of the essentials were out of place. Then they entered the garage.

No Paddleboard

An avid paddleboarder, Constantine rarely missed a chance to take in the sunrise from out on the ocean waves. The police noted the paddleboard was gone, and that wasn’t all. His diving bag was emptied of its normal contents: fins, a mask, and a weighted belt. 

Search and Rescue

The police filed an official report declaring Constantine missing. They scoured the surrounding areas for surveillance cameras, hoping to pinpoint when exactly he disappeared. In the well-to-do neighborhood, security cameras were a dime a dozen, so they were bound to get lucky.

On Camera

They did. At 6:30 am on March 20th, Constantine was captured on camera carrying his paddle board and gear out into the shallows of the ocean. Nothing appeared wrong. He moved out of frame, and no one saw a trace of him again.

No Luck

Immediately they began widespread searches of the nearby waters. Days passed, but the search for Constantine was coming up dry. Given his prowess at the sport, his family really doubted he could have suffered an accident. There were murmurs that the disappearance could be purposeful.

One Explanation

See, it looked like this case had a tragic, but logical ending: a man paddled out into the ocean, he drowned, and he was never heard from again. However, the police soon learned of another factor that wrenched a big hole in this theory.

Curious Timing

The very afternoon of the day Constantine vanished, he was supposed to appear in court. It was the day he’d long agonized over; a judge was going to make a decision regarding his past-due child support, and he owed a huge amount of money.

Lots of Money

Over $549,000, in fact. Stacy refused to back down, claiming that her ex husband's lucrative job and indulgent lifestyle proved he was capable of making payments. He just refused to do so. On the day he went missing, Constantine was expected to leave the courtroom in handcuffs.

A Skilled Paddleboarder

“He’s very capable on the paddle board so it seems pretty fishy to me," Constantine’s younger brother Richard noted to the press. The family suggested that he'd somehow plotted an escape and was actually alive, just staging his disappearance to avoid jail.

Multiple Endings

His family hoped their appeals on the news would reach Constantine, wherever he was. "If he’s scared, we hope he will contact us. Make a phone call. Just let somebody know you’re safe so we can rest at night.” “Right now, I’m like 50-50, either he fled or he’s out there drowned, I don’t know,” one family member said. The family would rather have Constantine back, alive, even if he went straight to jail.

Faked Death?

The news broadcasts aired, and there was still no sign of Constantine. Without a body, or even a trace of his paddle board, the police couldn't draw a conclusion on this case. Was he the victim of a tragic accident? Or was he just lost at sea for good? Unfortunately this isn't the first time such a question was asked, as the sea has been both a source of life and the final frontier for as long as humans have been on this planet.

Actual real life?

Back in June of 1965, a group of boys set out from Tongatapu – the main island in the sprawling Tongan archipelago. Aged between 13 and 16 years old, Fatai Latui, Sione Fataua, Kolo Fekitoa, Tevita Fifita Sioloa, Luke Veikoso and Mano Totau had their hearts set on a wild adventure. But they would end up getting far more than they bargained for.

Eerily similar story

Driven from their intended course, the young men wound up on the shores of ‘Ata, a depopulated outcrop in the far south of the islands. Over 100 miles from home, they were forced to depend on their wits – and each other – to survive. And before long, a scenario eerily similar to one in Lord of the Flies began to unfold.

Nature of mankind

But did the Tongan boys succumb to the same fate as the characters in William Golding’s famous novel? Did they turn against each other as they struggled to survive on their island home? Or does the truth say something a little more hopeful about the nature of mankind? Well, what really happened on ‘Ata may just surprise you.

An iconic story

And if you don’t remember the events of Lord of the Flies, you may be struck by how life so closely followed fiction – to begin with, anyway. The classic book tells the tale of a group of British schoolboys marooned on a Pacific island after an airplane crash. At first, the children are delighted to find themselves in what looks like paradise, with no adults around to tell them what to do. But this fantasy doesn’t last.

Survival of the fittest

Having installed a primitive form of democracy, the boys in the story set out a plan to survive and get rescued. Before long, though, they grow lazy and neglectful, more concerned with having fun than with being part of a functioning society. And when a rebel faction begins to grow in power, violence soon breaks out – and the boys quickly descend into savagery.

An important comparison...

Eventually, the book concludes with a British officer arriving on the island. Stumbling upon the tribe of feral boys, he expresses his disgust that his fellow countrymen have descended to such levels. But as the story ends, he is shown gazing back towards his own battleship, suggesting that it is not only children who are capable of such uncivilized behavior.

Lesson to learn

Since its publication, Lord of the Flies has served as a strong indictment of human nature, suggesting that evil lurks within us all. But for decades, many have wondered just how realistic Golding’s scenario is. In similar circumstances, would a group of unsupervised children really descend into violence and chaos? Or would they choose to cooperate instead?

Hypothetical? Or close to home?

For a long time, it seemed that the experiences depicted in Lord of the Flies were merely hypothetical. And that there were no real-life child castaways with which to make a comparison. But recently, a story has emerged that has offered an entirely different narrative up for consideration.

And so it begins...

This tale began to unfold in June 1965 in Nuku‘alofa, the capital city of Tonga on the island of Tongatapu. There, the six protagonists of this remarkable story were attending a boarding school run by the Catholic church. But after a while the boys grew tired of their education and began to plot a dramatic escape.

Six different kids

Of course, many young people dream of running away – but few make good on their outlandish schemes. These six, though, were different. And one day, they stole a boat from a local fisherman and set sail, hoping to reach New Zealand or Fiji, where they would start new lives.

Isolated indeed

With Fiji around 500 miles away, and New Zealand even further, it was not a voyage to be taken lightly. Surely then, the boys, being from a seafaring community, would have packed accordingly? Apparently not. If reports are to be believed, they set off with just a gas burner, some coconuts and a pile of bananas to sustain them.

Drifting away

And that wasn’t the only drastic error that the six schoolboys made. With neither a compass nor a map between them, they drifted out into the Pacific Ocean, leaving their island home far behind. At first, things seemed to be going well, with fair weather blessing the first stage of their ambitious voyage.

Caught in the storm

But then, lulled into a false sense of security, the boys drifted off to sleep. When they awoke hours later the sun had set – and they were in the grip of a violent storm. As waves smashed down on the tiny boat, they struggled to raise the sail, only for it to be quickly torn apart by the vicious wind.

Recounting the experience

As if that wasn’t bad enough, the rudder then broke, leaving the boys unable to plot a course across the raging seas. With no other option, they could do nothing as the currents carried them even further from home. In a 2020 article for U.K. newspaper The Guardian, Dutch writer Rutger Bregman recalled one of the boys, Totau, telling him about the experience.

No water, no hope

“We drifted for eight days,” Totau told Bregman. “Without food. Without water.” In a desperate attempt to stay hydrated, the boys collected rain in coconut shells and shared it among themselves. And with little hope left, People magazine reported in 2020, the castaways began to pray.

Welcome paradise

Eventually, it seems, their prayers were answered. After eight days at sea, the boys spotted a tiny island looming on the horizon. Unlike the desert islands of Hollywood movies, this was a jagged, brooding rock, its high cliffs soaring hundreds of feet above the Pacific Ocean. But compared to their ailing boat, it must have seemed a welcome paradise.

Hoping for rescue

What the boys could not have known at the time, of course, is that they had arrived at ‘Ata in the extreme south of the Tongan archipelago. Home, on Tongatapu, was almost 100 miles away – but it may as well have been another world. And if the castaways had been hoping for rescue on this remote island, they were about to be disappointed.

False pretenses

By the time that the boys arrived, you see, ‘Ata had been completely deserted for a century. At one point, in the mid-19th century, the island had supported a population of hundreds. But then, in June 1863 a slave ship arrived, tricking almost 150 natives on board under the pretense of a trading opportunity.

Abandoned at the edge of the world

With the islanders on board, the ship upped anchor and sailed off, never to return. And for those remaining on ‘Ata, life would never be the same. Their population decimated, they lived in fear of the slave traders, until King George Tupou I of Tonga ordered an evacuation. As the last inhabitants fled to the neighboring ‘Eua, the remote outcrop was left abandoned.

Swimming to shore

It was this ghost island, then, that the boys spotted after eight days of drifting at sea. But by the time that they got there, night had fallen. Weak from lack of food and dehydration, Totau nevertheless made the brave decision to jump ship and swim ashore. Speaking to The Guardian in 2020, he explained his ordeal.

The world is spinning

“When I reach the shore, I tried to stand up but when I stand up the whole world is spinning, so I laid down and crawl ashore and when I touch the dry grass, then I lay down,” Totau said. Eventually, the other five boys got to the isle, falling into a deep sleep on the welcome dry land. But when they awoke, the reality of their situation must have begun to sink in.

No hope of rescue

Stranded on ‘Ata with no immediate hopes of rescue, the boys soon realized that they would need to find a way to survive. But unlike the antiheroes of Golding’s book, they made a promise to each other that they would live together in peace. Back on Tonga, you see, they had been raised as part of a tight-knit community. So why should things be different here?

Communal mentality

“We all come from close and poor families where, whatever you get, you share,” Fataua told People. So the boys worked together to create a functioning society on their new island home. Over the next few months, they constructed an impressive array of facilities on ‘Ata, armed with little more than a simple knife.

Immediate sustenance

At first, the castaways sustained themselves by eating coconuts and fish as well as the flesh and eggs of seabirds. But as they explored the island, they discovered an abandoned settlement where the people of ‘Ata had once lived. There, they found a population of chickens as well as edible taro and banana plants.

Developing their own system

Over time, the boys developed a system for growing food and built pens to domesticate the semi-feral chickens. To keep a steady supply of drinking water, they collected rain inside hollowed-out trees, while a rudimentary badminton court helped them to stay fit. And if that wasn’t enough, they also constructed a gym complete with weights.

Permanent fire

In Lord of the Flies, the characters struggle to maintain a signal fire which might alert passing boats to their predicament. But on ‘Ata, the Tongans did not have the same problem. In fact, they kept a blaze going permanently, using it as a focal point for their makeshift community.

Social methods

Whenever the boys encountered a problem, Fatau recalled, they would gather around the fire and attempt to find a resolution. He said, “If anybody had something they didn’t like, they talked about it, and we say ‘Sorry’ and then pray and everything’s okay. If someone got really mad – like, if I planned something and they didn’t do it – you disappear for a few hours, look at the ocean and clear it out your mind.”

Dividing up the responsibilities

Working in groups of two, the boys shared out the various responsibilities that came with running their camp, from standing guard to kitchen duty. And in the mornings and evenings, they gathered together to pray. According to The Guardian, Fekitoa used repurposed steel wires to fashion a coconut-shell guitar, which he played to keep them entertained.

Staying focused

But despite the successes of their makeshift camp, the castaways never lost sight of their ultimate goal: to return home. In fact, at one point, they even managed to build a raft, although it broke up before they could set sail. Then, one day, Latui suffered a bad fall, breaking his leg as he tumbled from a cliff.

Back at home...

Undeterred, the boys came to Latui’s rescue, setting his broken limb with leaves and sticks. Speaking to The Guardian, Fatua recalled reassuring the injured boy. He said, “Don’t worry. We’ll do your work, while you lie there like King Taufa‘ahau Tupou himself!” But while the Tongans were coping remarkably well on ‘Ata, their families back home were beginning to lose hope.

Funeral arrangements

As weeks and months passed with no word of the boys, funerals were arranged. But then, on September 11, 1966, a sea captain by the name of Peter Warner was sailing past ‘Ata when he noticed something strange. There, on the supposedly uninhabited island, he spotted the signs of a fire.

Not so fast...

Knowing that such blazes do not usually start spontaneously in this part of the world, Warner took a closer look. And that’s when he saw it: a naked boy, wild hair flowing to his shoulders, standing at the top of a cliff. All of a sudden, the figure threw himself from the rock, landing in the water and beginning to swim towards the boat.

Making contact

Before long, the rest of the boys followed suit, screaming as they swam towards a startled Warner and his crew. According to The Guardian, Latui was the first to reach the boat, introducing himself in flawless English. He is reported to have said, “There are six of us, and we reckon we’ve been here 15 months.”

A frightening image indeed

As it turned out, Latui was right – the boys had been stranded on ‘Ata for well over a year. But it took a while for them to convince the sailors that they were not a threat. Speaking to the Guardian, Totau recalled, “They were so scared, because we were all naked, long hair… Mr Warner did not put the ladder down because they were all scared about us…”

An important call

After quizzing the boys about Tonga, Warner decided to welcome them on board – although he remained unconvinced about their real identity. So, he undecided to radio Nuku‘alofa, informing the operator that he had picked up six alleged castaways. After a tense 20-minute wait, their incredible tale was confirmed.

Tearful reunion

According to The Guardian, the operator was in tears when they returned to the line. They said, “You found them! These boys have been given up for dead. Funerals have been held. If it’s them, this is a miracle.” Finally convinced, Warner took the castaways home to Tonga, where they would be reunited with their families at last.

Arrest warrant

But first, there was another obstacle for the intrepid survivors to overcome. On their return to Nuku’alofa they were promptly arrested, charged for the theft of the boat that they had borrowed all those months ago. Eventually, Warner was able to sell the rights to the boys’ story, using the money to pay back the disgruntled fisherman and secure their release.

Sailors for hire

As the people of Tonga celebrated the boys’ miraculous return, Warner was hailed a hero. And as a thank you for his actions, he was awarded a license to fish for lobster and run a business in the archipelago. Purchasing a fishing boat, he hired all six of the castaways as his crew – finally granting them their wish to see the wider world.

Remembering the tale

Over time, the incredible story of the six castaways was largely forgotten. But in September 2019 Bregman included the tale in his book Humankind, catapulting the boys, now men in their 60s and 70s, into the spotlight once more. According to the author, the difference between these Tongans and their fictional counterparts in Lord of the Flies is a significant one. Speaking to People, he said, “We’ve been telling ourselves cynical stories about humanity for decades. A more hopeful view of human nature is exactly what we need right now.”